I tried one more time with the dealer I bought the truck from here in S. Carolina. I told them I was not going to leave the vehicle with them but I did want them to contact Honda's TechLine (with the reference number I had from the visit in MN). After some back and forth and me needing to get visibly upset they agreed to contact Honda. A day went by and, after a nasty review email from me, the Service Manager called me saying that Honda has no recommendations and nothing they can do unless they can capture the problem at a dealership. I don't see how that will ever happen and even if it did, then what? It seems like they have enough information to deduce the problem? My guess is they know it's a software glitch and that a recall would be the only way to fix it and with only a handful of cases, it's not worth it.
So what are we supposed to do? Just live with it? Next winter comes and the CEL comes on while merging into traffic is just something to expect when you own a Ridgeline.
Anyhow, I am thinking of trading it in for something else but what? A Tacoma? Not as comfortable and worse gas mileage? A Ranger? Issues with the Ecoboost engine overheating might still be a concern, I don't know? A Santa Cruz? Maybe?
Anybody have any positive words of encouragement?