Sounds like the 2017 Ridgeline was made for you.
Bright. I have been getting flashed frequently by oncoming traffic. My headlight aim is set exactly to factory specs. I suspect most people would have a difficult time distinguishing between HIDs and LEDs unless they watched them start up. LEDs are instant-on to full brightness. HIDs typically take a few seconds to reach their reach their proper color temperature and brightness, although this has improved over the years.