When I first got my 20 rtle I went round and round on this forum regarding the MM and oil changes.
I have learned that there is no "break in" oil.
I also learned that NEVER reset the MM early and follow its advice if you haven't performed that maintenance already.
With that said I change my oil and filter way before the recommended interval I also did the trans, rear diff, etc. early.
I keep a manual record of maintenance and reset the MM at 5-10%
The MM being on schedule is a backup for me in case I forget something in the future I will have the recommended service performed when Honda wants me too.
I know I may be viewed as wasteful or throwing money away, but I have my piece of mind and feel safer.
Case in point, I put new tires on my RL after they had 25000 miles on them. Why? Because the new tires are much better in braking, rain, cornering, dry traction, ride comfort, on and on.
Why should I drive on the crappy OEM Firestones when I can be safer with the new tires?
Driving the recommended 60,000 miles on the OEM tires just to save money made no sense to me.
FWIW my wife's Acura MM has the ability to reset the oil change independent from the rest of the MM intervals.